DEAR DEIDRE: I TRIED on my girlfriend’s air hostess uniform – now I can’t stop thinking about dressing up as a woman.
I’m 30 and she’s 25. We’ve been together for three years.
Around four months ago she started a job as cabin crew for an airline.
Since then she’s been away a lot for work, so I’ve had a lot of time to myself.
One day when I saw her spare uniform hanging up in our wardrobe, I felt a sudden urge.
The thought of wearing women’s clothing had never crossed my mind before. But I found myself pulling on her skirt, blouse, and tights.
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I felt quite turned on wearing the uniform.
Since then I’ve even tried putting on make-up and a wig.
While I have no desire to be a woman, I feel really guilty that I’m hiding this from my girlfriend.
She would be really upset if she found out I was keeping a secret from her, but I’m worried that she won’t understand.
What if she can’t accept me?
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DEIDRE SAYS: You are not on your own in feeling this way and the chances are this goes back to something you experienced as a child.
Many people will cross-dress for various reasons – to reduce anxiety and experiment.
My support pack Worried About Cross Dressing will help you.
As for your girlfriend, some women don’t mind this sort of thing but for others, it can be a deal-breaker.
It would be best to talk to someone outside of your situation to gain some clarity.
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