I want a woman to watch me pleasure myself but don't want a relationship

DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE been single for four years. I’m actually pretty happy and enjoy my own company.

I see people when I go to work and watch the footie in my local. To be honest, that’s enough for me.


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I’m a 34-year-old male and sometimes think it would be good to be in a relationship but then I remind myself how difficult having a girlfriend can be.

The only time I really wish I had female company is when I’m pleasuring myself – which as I’m single, I do fairly regularly.

But I don’t mean I want sex with a woman – I like the idea of her watching me as I pleasure myself. Am I weird?

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DEIDRE SAYS: There is nothing wrong with being happy as a singleton.

And some women would be happy to partake in your fantasy, but be clear from the outset about what you are looking for, or you may send confusing signals.

But I wonder if you have been hurt in the past and have convinced yourself you don’t need anyone.

If so, it would help to talk to a counsellor, so I’m sending you my support pack on Counselling.

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