DEAR DEIDRE: NO matter what I try, I can’t orgasm with my new partner.
We’ve tried different things and I’ve shown him what I like but nothing seems to work.
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We met online in January. He’s 56 and I’m 49.
Before meeting him I’d been single for 12 years. My husband died of cancer in 2009 and it took me a long time to get back out there.
But it was worth the wait. My boyfriend is kind, caring and great with my grandkids.
He’s also a great lover. He always wants me to enjoy sex just as much as he does, if not more.
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But despite his determination, I just can’t seem to climax.
Is there something wrong with me?
DEIDRE SAYS: Our sexual organs are connected to our brains so if you are feeling anxious and nervous, this can stop you from letting go.
Or perhaps you are struggling to move on after the death of your husband.
It could be worth considering counselling.
I am sending you my support pack on Bereavement.
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