Sex is over too quickly and I fear I will never be able to hold onto a partner

DEAR DEIDRE: I FIND it so hard to get aroused with a girl and, when I do manage it, the sex is over in no time.

I’ve never had a long-term relationship really, just lots of one-night stands.


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I’m a guy of 30 and people say I’m good-looking, but the dates never go further than that first night and I think it is all down to the bad sex.

If I drink alcohol so that the sex lasts longer, it takes longer to get an erection.

My mates are all settling down now and I’d like somebody special in my life but I’ll never find a girlfriend until I can sort this issue out.

DEIDRE SAYS: The best sex tends to be in a long-term relationship where you can work on building passion and intimacy.

Focus on making new friends to give yourself the chance of meeting some-one special.

Don’t rush to have sex but, when you feel confident to take things to the next stage, my e-leaflet How Men Can Last Longer explains how to improve your staying power without resorting to alcohol.

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